HelenB wrote:
But surely, if you book accommodation with a pool shared with others, you must accept that other peoples children will be using it?
Small amounts of urine (which is sterile when it leaves the body anyway) will be dealt with by the pool chemicals.
Of course I do, you are taking my post out of context. My comment was in response to Ju's post that all her guests are family, which is going too far in my book. Although I have to admit that I would much rather be in close proximity to many of my guests than some members of my family, I don't think my guests want me to assume I am related to them and jump in the pool with them, or sit down with them at the dining table when they are eating, (which is what the owner of a new restaurant did to me last week, and it seriously put me off going back).
Not all pools are chlorinated here either - a lot are salt water, I'm not sure if that makes any difference. I think most people know that urine is sterile, but poo certainly isn't and if babies never did anything in swimming pools ever, we wouldn't be having this discussion.
I took an 8 month old swimming this year. It was a public pool (salt water) and her mother changed her at the side into a swim nappy immediately prior to handing her to me in the water. There was no discussion about it, I assumed it was a requirement. I don't see much difference between that and a shared pool in a gites complex, since they are both shared by random members of the general public at the same time, much the same as a hotel pool. As a guest, I would therefore expect your rules to be along the same lines as public/ hotel pools in your area.
So if it is the norm to require swim nappies at hotel/ public pools in your area, and you don't require them, then I guess some may think the pool unhygienic even though it may be the squeakiest cleanest pool in the whole wide world. Perception is everything.
OTOH, if swim nappies are generally not required in most of the resort spots across the civilized world, then an owner would have some argument to not require them, regardless of how clean their pool may be perceived to be.
That's all I am trying to get at here, it's pretty simple.
1. What would most guests expect based on where they are coming from?
2. Does that differ from the local customs in your area?
3. Do your rules differ from public pools in your area?